Father’s Day celebrates not just dads, but moms and other caregivers, too

Father’s Day is a time to celebrate the important role that dads play in their children’s lives. For a long time, fathers were seen as “secondary” parents, while mothers stereotypically handled most nurturing and parenting duties. But parenting research and shifted gender expectations have led to a growing appreciation for fathers who are involved in their children’s lives.

Modern families are complex, though. Sometimes, dads aren’t present in a child’s life for a variety of reasons. Some children are raised by single mothers, two moms, grandparents, relatives, or any other combination of parental figures. But that doesn’t mean kids from these types of households miss out on the benefits of having an involved caregiver who fills the typical role dads may play. Loving caregivers within any family structure can raise their children to develop into healthy, happy people.

Here are just a few of the many ways involved parents can positively impact their children:

Cognitive development

A child’s cognitive development clearly benefits from a parent who is highly involved in play and caregiving activities. Infants as young as 5 months old score higher on tests of cognitive development if they have a highly-involved father figure. As they get older, these children also get better grades and are more successful in school (Cummings & O’Reilly). These children are also more curious and more engaged with their education.

Boost confidence

By showing their children love and attention, parents help raise children who feel valued and loved. Children with supportive father figures are happier and have greater self-esteem. These children have less anxiety and learn to create more positive relationships with others (Cabrera).

Positive male role model

Father figures can be a great role model for children, promoting good behaviors and relationship practices. Children with more involved father figures learn to be compassionate and sociable, and demonstrate greater impulse control (Newton, Easterbrooks & Goldberg). Fathers who share parenting duties and household chores with mothers also show their children positive gender-role characteristics.

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